Day
2
So
I've found it, “The” place. Of course there was no finding of
“The” place if I did not find it within myself first. Day 1 was
tainted by frustration. Uncompromising slabs of concrete blocked the
access to the place where I camped and painted last year. Yet another
road to happiness on this Earth appeared closed. I asked a few locals
if I could set up my little tent at their huge property and just
paint. No need of their facilities, no intrusion of their privacy.
The answer was a repeated, “no.” A very definitive, “no.” I
began to think, “is it that the more you own, the more you are
scared to give, the more you are scared to lose?” Poor people, poor
“rich” people! I made a mental note not to ever be like that. I
took off not knowing where to go and tried my best to forgive and
forget. There's a reason beyond immediate understanding for
everything and the purpose is always to help us on our way. There's
no doubt that a better place will show up.
I
cooked my modest veggie dinner on my tiny gas heater at the dead-end
of a school parking zone and walked up a few yards into the bushes
where I set up my tent in darkness. The night wasn't peaceful. I
dreamt of bears. The many night animals crawling in the dry
undergrowth around my tent amplified my unease. I finally drifted to
dreamless sleep just as the dawn was breaking.
I
woke up tired but I thanked the Lord to be here and now. There were
no noisy people around and no traffic in my circumference of
perception. What else could I ask for? Maybe a hot Americano! Right.
So I packed my tent and drove in the direction of the town. I was
happy and one with the moment again. Somehow I knew that I was at the
right place at the right time, doing the right thing. After all, I
had a date with my heart. Alone. That was the plan. As long as I'd
stay true to my intention, things would fall into place.
Without
really asking for anything, just sharing my as a part of a friendly
customer chat, I received a map of the area from Jake, a coffee shop
employee. He highlighted a few spots that he thought might be
suitable for my lonely camping stay. And that is how I found “The”
place. I realized if I find the peace within, I would find it
without.
I
am settled in and I tried to do some painting but it's windy now and
I can't paint because the canvas keeps falling off the easel by the
sudden rushes of air. It doesn't matter, I am naked in the forest
and I feel so worry-free! I feel I have no need to accomplish or fake
anything. I have an intense feeling of happiness that seems to be
just a natural side effect of it.
As
I woke up from a nap under the pine trees I find my scarce belongings
are scattered around me, rays of sun caress my skin and flies are
crawling all over me, tickling me back to awareness. My plan is to go for a swim in a pristine lake of turquoise blue as I need to wash
off the paint stains not only from my hands but also from my chest,
back and buttocks. Painting can be a little bit of a funny business!
How
did I get myself here, some 300 km into the BC interior from
Vancouver, with nobody to talk to besides the trees and myself?
Simply by a feeling I had. By a feeling so acute and articulated like
the sensation of an ant making its way through the bush of my crotch
hair right now! I should trim it I guess, but then, nobody is going
to explore this area for quite some time, as long as I am true to my
decision, so for now I could not care less.
I
was going to throw a party at my studio 420. That was my original
plan. But then I met Dharia, an enlightened being from a hidden
ashram in Himalayas, who happened to be in Vancouver teaching
meditation. It was our second meeting. Our first one was a
breakthrough for me. It made me think how did someone so egocentric
as myself cross paths with somebody so unconditionally loving as
Dharia? Our second meeting wasn't any less of a breakthrough than the
first one. If someone is ready, the Truth resonates so strongly in
his or her core that it cannot be overlooked. Especially when you ask
for it so humbly, for the simple reason that you can't look at
yourself in the mirror anymore without feeling fake. After the
meditation and the message she channeled from my heart, which was
very painful but with a trace of hope, I drove her home and I knew
that the party wasn't what I was supposed to do. After the meditation
I woke up, spent the day painting at my studio, packed at night and
left early the following morning. I didn't say anything to anybody.
As
soon as I took direction east on Avenue zero, much more slowly than
my usual driving speed, peace settled within me. I knew I was doing
the right thing. That is how I find myself here, in “The” place,
at the right time, having a date with my crying heart.
Day
3
I
woke up at 7am after a much more peaceful night and drove to town to
grab a coffee and buy some leafy greens for my diet, not forgetting
cigarette papers. I was in a rush to get back to my lonely place
though. The mandatory interactions with people at the stores felt a
bit off place. As soon as I came back to my tent I stripped off all
my clothes, rolled up a smoke with the tobacco Radoslav brought me
back from India and started reading a Robert Bateman book, high as a
kite! I felt my heart beating in my chest very strong. Bateman's
words are shining from each page as a window to a different world,
way too beautiful for this one. It's so alive and full of Love it
makes me wanna cry. Soon after I start devouring another Murakami
novel. I finished “Wild sheep chase” yesterday. And it surely did
make me cry. The last paragraph was too much. I sobbed like a child
when I was first confronted with the finality of life.
Everything
around me seems to be in perfect harmony with every inch of the
surrounding space. I can't even listen to music. As soon as I put on
my headphones I have a feeling that the trees nearby have a story to
tell and I could miss it. As I gaze at the forested steep slope on
the opposite side of the lake, swaying in the occasional wind, it
confirms my feeling. This place has a lot to say for anyone quiet
enough to hear it. I take a swig at my vodka drink every now and
then. A beetle flies right past my ear making me scared with the
powerful buzz of its wings and lands on orange strip of my tent. I
look at the patches of white clouds dancing in front of ultramarine
blue of the sky and suddenly shout, “Don't be so fucking serious Mr
Kasparec!” I let out a fart and fix a coffee on my stove heater.
The flies are relentless. They continue dancing happily in the
pleasant breeze. “I could learn a lot from them”, I think
seriously.
I
spent part of the afternoon devouring the second Murakami, “South
of the border, West of the sun.” I wanted to read slowly and save
the book for later, but it was impossible to put down. I turned the
last page in a few hours (at least I think it was a few hours judging
by the movement of sun in the sky). Oh my God. If yesterday I cried
reading, then today I cried a river. I lay down hopelessly crying
with my arms stretched and mouth opened towards the sky. My guts are
contracting convulsively with my sobs. So much beauty I felt in
surrendering, such much beauty I felt in loss. God, if I am to die,
please take me in this very moment, because I have tasted the touch
of your unity. I love you Murakami! Please don't die anytime soon,
okay? You need to bless us with many more novels!!
I
roll up a semi-crippled cigarette and look lazily around. The bitter
smoke bit me and I spat. My spit landed on a small tree next to me
and I watch it hanging from a branch like a silver thread. The tree
doesn't seem to mind. I apologized anyway.
I
don't smoke, so weed is out of the question for me. But the pure
tobacco leaves without any chemicals get me so high for a moment that
I feel realities shifting. As if the ever-present veil of
ego-perception lifts and I see things as they really are, without any
mind commentary, without any interpretation. And even when it starts
talking I know it is not me and I know that it has nothing to do with
the real essence of the thing it is describing. I hear the voice, but
inside I am still and centered, I watch it speak without judgment,
without attachment.
The
wind came up again at sunset when I was painting. My canvas fell on
me and I got covered in paint again. Even still I could not stop
painting though, not just yet. I sat on the ground and continued
painting with one hand while holding the canvas with the other. When
I finally decided to stop the darkness is already crawling in. I go
to the car to refill my bottle with vodka and juice and notice that
people who were camping further down at the lake had left. I felt
exhilarated to be truly alone. The feeling quickly changes as the
wind amplifies and howls intensely in the trees. Dark clouds make the
night settle in much faster than I anticipated. Even the mosquitos
don't come out. I guess the prospect of my blood wasn't sweet enough
to navigate in this weather! Or they are still digesting the dose
they got out of my veins yesterday. To be really honest, I am scared.
I am scared right now; typing these lines zipped up in my tent with
the orchestra of a bewildered forest sucking me into a cacophony of
sounds. I feel so alone in the world, but even still a part of me is
very happy to be here. I think it will be an intense night. If I
could, I would fast forward the upcoming 10 hours until the morning
light.
Day
4
To
my surprise I managed to get through the night without too much
anguish. The wind was shaking my tent and at times I could hear
raindrops, but whenever I heard creaking and rustling noises, I
concentrated on my breath with all my awareness and with every exhale
I repeated in my mind, “I am safe, I am safe.” It worked.
I
woke up to a silence so thick I could have dove in it like in an
ocean of cold-press organic virgin coconut oil. I relieved my bladder
and set up a little fire to warm my feet and hands. I prepare some
coffee and pull out the sleeping bag out of the tent. I pass out
again, feeling sweetly tired, the kind of tiredness when the mind is
not present and every movement is naturally slow and simple. When I
open my eyes I can see the aura around the pine trees against the
cloudy sky very clearly. Suddenly I feel the urge to listen to
Ricardo Montaner's song “Yo que te ame”. I am singing out loud
along with him and remembering the good times in Argentina with Hugo.
Alone, naked, and free! It feels so blissful and unpretentious, pure
joy in my heart. If there were any bears before, they would be gone
by now.
I
hike down the steep descent to the lake, sliding at places, until I
reach the shore. I am already naked so all I have to do is take off
my shoes and dive in. This is the first time I would swim across to
the other side. I wash off a layer of bird crap from a flat stone and
sit on it. The kingdom of seaweed under the water’s surface seems
even more abundant and mysterious on this far side. My shoes are but
a blurry blue spot on the opposite side. I swim back laughing with
pleasure at times. Swimming in unknown deep waters naked always gives
me this feeling of apprehension. “What's going on bellow me?” Is
something watching me pass by and deciding how to react to my
intrusion? What if some big fish bites off my weenie? Do girls ever
have this kind of idea? Probably not.
I
crawl back on the unstable rocky bank. I am shivering. I shave and I
brush my teeth. It's weird how such a simple act of hygiene can make
you feel better. I sit there for a long while, enjoying the rays of
sun on my drying body. I focus my vision to under the water. So much
life, so much life everywhere. Unfolding on its own, totally
independent of what we think is worthwhile, of our interpretation of
our purpose and importance. If I disappeared right here, the world
would not skip a beat. It would continue unfolding with all its
drama, with all its beauty.
I’m
not thinking of what I am going to do today, not even in 5 or 10
minutes. The fullness of the moment seems to be all there is right
now.
I
climb back up, naked, to my campsite and sprawl purposefully on the
blanket. An undetermined amount of time passes. All of a sudden a
hydroplane flies right above me, still fairly high enough though. Yet
as soon as it fades into the distance it slips from my mind. But then
it comes back from the opposite direction, this time roaring with
magnificence as it approaches the surface of the lake. It makes me
jump up from my lazy daydreaming and prepare lunch. Wow, it could
have landed on me a while ago. The pilot might have used my white bum
as a good landmark, I ponder humorously.
All
of my meals are the same. Yet each time they taste more delicious. I
throw diced onion into coconut oil and fry it golden brown before
adding pre-cooked brown rice. I add turmeric and salt and stir-fry.
And just before I kill the flame, I add whole pile of raw spinach and
lettuce, so they stay green and crunchy. Once served, I add some
fresh avocado and of course a lot of cayenne pepper goes without
saying. I can’t wait to eat this delicious abundance and have it
make love in my stomach. I touch my hands and utter a silent “Itadaki
mas” before touching this gift of God. Japan sure did leave some
good traces in me!
I
spend the afternoon painting the view of the cliff and lake. A family
of three walks up on me from the trail behind my back. I wave at them
happily and tell them that I'm naked but that it's totally fine with
me if they pass by. Somehow they end up being more embarrassed than
me and made a point of not even looking in my direction. People are a
funny species!
If
last evening and night was Yang then today is Yin. The air is so
still the lake seems to be made of mercury, a motionless mirror
faithfully reflecting the image above it.
I've
seen many dramatic sunset skies in my life, but to me tonight's sky
seems out of this world. Stunning! Large patches of creamy orange
colors combined with stylish lace of white outlined clouds. So that
is the life behind the dream of life. Perpetually changing yet
constant.
I
take a puff on my artisan mini smoke. I can hear the roaring of the
bloodstream in my arteries. The body runs on its own without a hint
of worry about the confused soul occupying it.
Mosquitoes
are truly fierce tonight. As if they are trying to make up for
yesterday's public holiday (in the mosquito calendar, of course). I
decided to hide in the safety of my tent and wait for sleep to come.
Day
5
I
decide to leave today. The timing is perfect, as it starts to get
cold. I can feel the upcoming shift in weather. As soon as the
decision was made, my mind clings to it and my mood changes. It's
much harder to be present again. All the ideas and prospects of what
I'm going to do once I'm back kick in. “At least I am aware of the
illusory trap,” I think.
So
what have I learned from this trip, from my date with myself so to
speak, was it worth coming?
Every
step on the journey is worth it, or so it seems. And I am very very
happy that I made it, that I came so far to be alone with myself in
silence.
I
realized that I am not who I am trying to be most of the time. I
realized what a burden I've been dragging on my back all my life by
trying to fulfill the roles that I play, in order to look good, be
accepted, be admired, be loved. I was playing these roles without
ever really loving myself first fully. This is the false idea of
grandeur. So much energy spent in the effort of sustaining it that
there was none left to see the slightest glimpse of the true grandeur
of Universe, which I now realize more clearly than ever I am part of.